[ Kurapika #relates to that weary sigh, though he doesn't mirror it himself outside of a knowing tilt of his head. That woman is evil!! ]

Our only choice is to try to attend to the most dangerous matters... I don't want to waste any more time at tea parties.

[ In this sense, based on the things he's been forced to go through at casa de Vermeer, he thinks that place is at the top of the list for Places That Waste Time and Don't Offer Anything Worthwhile Information-Wise in Minecraftia™. ]

If I had to guess, that place is the one meant to deter us. You've been there yourself?